Vanasco is without question one of the most versatile and inventive memoirists working today, and her latest tells a powerful story of the gulfs that separate people and the love that bridges them.
– Rafael Frumkin, WBEZ Chicago.
Articulating the pain of a removal, something that is not there, is massively challenging, and yet Jeannie Vanasco has done it—filled the scarcity of silence with an abundance of thrilling, exacting prose. A Silent Treatment is a gift for those of us who’ve been punished by the particular cruelty of silence and an opportunity for those who use this method of punishment to understand their frailty. A salve and a method of healing, this memoir will help countless people.
– Marie-Helene Bertino, author of Beautyland
I look to Jeannie Vanasco to learn where memoir can go next, what psychic spaces it has yet to broach. In A Silent Treatment, Vanasco’s response to her mom’s silence unearths rage, loyalty, bottomless need, and probes the bounds of reality itself. It’s impossible to read without questioning one’s own primary relationships: How can we be enough to each other? How should we relate to those who love and harm us most deeply? What do we owe our parents and ourselves? Provocative, gripping, and dancing on the edge of madness, A Silent Treatment is a transformative thriller. I couldn’t put it down, and it still hasn’t let go of me.
– Jenn Shapland, author of Thin Skin
Spirited in form and pensive with its subject, A Silent Treatment confronts both the complexity of family and the quandary of capturing a family’s shapeshifting and perplexing love, their truthful and devoted love, in the amber of memoir.
– Megha Majumdar, author of A Burning
With each new book Jeannie Vanasco completely reimagines what life writing can be. I am in awe of what she has done in A Silent Treatment, which is such a nuanced and open-hearted exploration of how we tell our mothers’ stories, and what it’s like to be a daughter of complicated women. This is a book charged with the authority of love, a tribute without romanticization, and an indelible portrait of what can emerge from the terrifying blank space of silence.
– Madeleine Watts, author of Elegy, Southwest
Jeannie Vanasco’s A Silent Treatment deftly explores the targeted omission of speech with both insight and compassion. In bursts of poignant, staccato prose, Vanasco lyrically traces the particular and cumulative harm of withholding. A Silent Treatment is a ground-breaking, complex, and moving contribution to the genre, demonstrating her unique ability to write about and through the moral complexity of our deepest intimacies.
– Cyrus Dunham, author of A Year Without a Name
In A Silent Treatment, Vanasco writes from within her mother’s punitive silence, an ever-present, pressurized force that radiates through the floorboards from her apartment below. Vanasco’s precise language chisels into the quiet white space of each page, conveying her urgent need to communicate while avoiding harm. In this way, the two women are mirrors to each other, caught in that age-old question: how best to love those closest to us. This is a book I’ll turn to again and again, and I’m grateful Vanasco has written it.
– Sarah Perry, author of Sweet Nothings
You could never for a moment think this is a revenge memoir. It’s written with such obvious love for her mother, and with the kind of empathy often exalted but little demonstrated in contemporary memoirs.
– Sarah Malley, what has my friend smalls been reading?
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– Rafael Frumkin, WBEZ Chicago.
Articulating the pain of a removal, something that is not there, is massively challenging, and yet Jeannie Vanasco has done it—filled the scarcity of silence with an abundance of thrilling, exacting prose. A Silent Treatment is a gift for those of us who’ve been punished by the particular cruelty of silence and an opportunity for those who use this method of punishment to understand their frailty. A salve and a method of healing, this memoir will help countless people.
– Marie-Helene Bertino, author of Beautyland
I look to Jeannie Vanasco to learn where memoir can go next, what psychic spaces it has yet to broach. In A Silent Treatment, Vanasco’s response to her mom’s silence unearths rage, loyalty, bottomless need, and probes the bounds of reality itself. It’s impossible to read without questioning one’s own primary relationships: How can we be enough to each other? How should we relate to those who love and harm us most deeply? What do we owe our parents and ourselves? Provocative, gripping, and dancing on the edge of madness, A Silent Treatment is a transformative thriller. I couldn’t put it down, and it still hasn’t let go of me.
– Jenn Shapland, author of Thin Skin
Spirited in form and pensive with its subject, A Silent Treatment confronts both the complexity of family and the quandary of capturing a family’s shapeshifting and perplexing love, their truthful and devoted love, in the amber of memoir.
– Megha Majumdar, author of A Burning
With each new book Jeannie Vanasco completely reimagines what life writing can be. I am in awe of what she has done in A Silent Treatment, which is such a nuanced and open-hearted exploration of how we tell our mothers’ stories, and what it’s like to be a daughter of complicated women. This is a book charged with the authority of love, a tribute without romanticization, and an indelible portrait of what can emerge from the terrifying blank space of silence.
– Madeleine Watts, author of Elegy, Southwest
Jeannie Vanasco’s A Silent Treatment deftly explores the targeted omission of speech with both insight and compassion. In bursts of poignant, staccato prose, Vanasco lyrically traces the particular and cumulative harm of withholding. A Silent Treatment is a ground-breaking, complex, and moving contribution to the genre, demonstrating her unique ability to write about and through the moral complexity of our deepest intimacies.
– Cyrus Dunham, author of A Year Without a Name
In A Silent Treatment, Vanasco writes from within her mother’s punitive silence, an ever-present, pressurized force that radiates through the floorboards from her apartment below. Vanasco’s precise language chisels into the quiet white space of each page, conveying her urgent need to communicate while avoiding harm. In this way, the two women are mirrors to each other, caught in that age-old question: how best to love those closest to us. This is a book I’ll turn to again and again, and I’m grateful Vanasco has written it.
– Sarah Perry, author of Sweet Nothings
You could never for a moment think this is a revenge memoir. It’s written with such obvious love for her mother, and with the kind of empathy often exalted but little demonstrated in contemporary memoirs.
– Sarah Malley, what has my friend smalls been reading?
Ten Books by Maryland Authors You Will Want to Read This Summer, Baltimore Sun
A Most Anticipated Book, The Millions